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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 21.06.2025 01:14

How does one succeed in life?

What I need from you?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can someone feel more FTM when AMAB?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Has anyone ever really waited that long and gotten a paper check mailed 20 days ago?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

You guys are talking about having sex with dogs. I heard a news man was trying to have sex with a female dog and got stuck inside. Is that possible? How does it feel inside a dog’s vagina?

Do not set goals—set systems.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

When do you feel most peaceful ever?

Does not procrastinate.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What is your opinion about homosexuality? Do you think that it is by nature or a choice?

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Why are some people afraid of monsters?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why is Jack Smith arguing that presidents should not have full immunities as Trump is requesting?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Some men love anal sex more than vaginal sex. Why?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Why do I (45, male) feel like I'm crushing on a girl (19, female)?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

I wore a Trump hat to a doctor’s visit. The doctor made a strange comment, he was obviously on the opposite political point that make me uncomfortable. What shall I do on my next visit?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

That's it for today.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What might be the social consequences of an ethnic as opposed to a civic conception of the nation?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

How far back into your childhood can your remember and what is your favorite memory of that time?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Procrastinates a lot.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Ask yourself: